I was seething with frustration and absolute fury when he refused to share details of his night out with his mates. I felt so disconnected from him, insecure, and lonely. With a win-at-all-costs attitude and in a last attempt to express my frustration, I found myself marching to the bedroom with a bucket of water and pouring it over him! On top of that, I told him what a mess he had made and demanded he clean it up! As you can probably imagine, he wasn’t impressed.
My relationship felt like a complete disaster. I was completely out of control, extremely frustrated, overwhelmed, and exhausted. If only he showed more interest in our budget, had more drive to better our lives, focused less on the TV, and prioritised health more—maybe I would feel happier.
Was it possible I had married the wrong man?
I had a giant clean-up to deal with, and it was far more than just a bucket of water!
The clean-up began when my sister recommended "The Empowered Wife". As I read through its pages, I realised I wasn’t alone and that perhaps my interpretation of love and respect (or lack thereof) was contributing to our struggles.
Not long into my journey with the skills, I recall asking for my husband’s opinion on how we should deal with a plumbing issue for the house. I felt untrusting of his response but managed to keep my mouth shut and have a little faith. Sharing the responsibility was so much less stressful, and the situation turned out even better than if I had taken control.
I felt the intimacy growing!
This was the marriage I wanted!
The Six Intimacy Skills™ framework has been absolutely life-changing. It has allowed me to single-handedly transform my marriage. I didn’t need to beg for anyone to change anything. These skills steered my focus back to me, and this is where the magic happened. When I stopped focusing my energy on changing him, I began to grow as an individual and became happier and more magnetic in the process.
I’m not kidding when I say this—my whole life changed, and even my husband transformed!
It is an absolute pleasure to now expect the best, not the worst. I choose intimacy over control as often as I can by identifying my fears and choosing faith in others instead, including my teenage boys.
I’m grateful and believe it’s a blessing to have found the skills. Our kids now have the gift of seeing us talk to each other with respect. They see us smiling, greeting each other lovingly, having fun, and flirting. We are redefining the interpretation of love for our children.
Now, instead of pouring out a bucket of frustration and resentment, I’m showering my family with gratitude and respect.
This is the gift I’m giving to my marriage and my children every single day.
I’m driven by a deep passion for helping wives discover the genuine joy that enriches their lives. You’ve probably heard the saying, “Happy wife, happy life,” and it’s more than just a catchy phrase – it holds profound wisdom. When a wife finds true happiness, it’s like a beacon of light that illuminates not only her husband’s world but the entire family unit, fostering a nurturing environment. Their shared joy creates a ripple effect that extends far beyond their home, touching the lives of those around them and spreading warmth and positivity throughout their community.
I believe in the transformative power of happiness, and I invite you to join me on this inspiring journey of spreading joy and fostering harmony. Let’s start right where we are, nurturing our own happiness as wives, mothers and women. Together, we can ignite a chain reaction of positivity that radiates outwards, making our world a brighter and more beautiful place for all.
“To put the world right in order, we must first put the nation in order; to put the nation in order, we must first put the family in order; to put the family in order, we must first cultivate our personal life; and to cultivate our personal life, we must first set our own hearts right.”
– Confucius
From the very beginning, nurturing love and peace in my parenting and home has always been a priority for me. To support this, I completed the Incredible Years Parent Training Program, equipping me with skills and strategies for fostering a peaceful parenting philosophy.
With a diploma in food science and technology and a postgraduate certificate in management, I spent a significant portion of my working life in the food industry. One of my key roles was in quality assurance, constantly on the lookout for anything unsafe, unhealthy, incorrect, or unlawful. I was the one auditing processes and people to pinpoint where things were going wrong. My attention to detail was fantastic, and I prided myself on being correct, honest, and maintaining high standards. I excelled in this role and others, including production planner, business freight analyst, microbiology and micronutrient technician, and wastewater treatment management.
But those skills did not help me succeed in my marriage. I needed a whole lot of new skills for that. And that’s where I found the Six Intimacy Skills™. I dedicated over four years to mastering them. I underwent intensive training directly from the best, including Laura Doyle herself and Master Coach Kathy Murray. It was a significant investment of time and resources, but it was worth every moment and every penny. I emerged not only as a certified Laura Doyle relationship coach but as a beacon of hope and empowerment for countless others.
As a busy mom for most of my children’s lives, I understand the pressure and stress that come with balancing professional and family responsibilities. Despite the business and financial success I gained throughout those years, true happiness for me always depended on the quality of my relationships with my kids and my husband. This insight drives my empathetic approach to supporting my clients in their own journeys toward fulfilling relationships. Having a fulfilling relationship is the most empowering feeling in the world, and something I hope every woman experiences.
The upcoming available 4-week workshops are listed below:
OCTOBER 2025
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All sessions 2hours long.
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